Becoming an escort is not as easy as people imagine. There is a lot of confidence required and if you see yourself as someone who is not good enough, you may never succeed in the escort industry. Sometimes being an escort means that you will have to ignore some of the negative comments that people say about you the moment they realize the kind of job you do.
So long as you are happy with what you are doing, whatever people around you say should never shake you. Instead, put on a happy mask, joke around and laugh out loud so that the people around you can see how happy you are and that their judgmental and critique looks do not affect you in any way. They need to know that you are more than an escort and you are also an educated, smart, compassionate, joyful and fun human being.
- Change your way of thinking
There may reach a time as an escort where you may have an image crisis. This is where you feel that you are not good enough to be the best escort. This may especially happen to escorts who work with agencies like Escort 92 that is full of beautiful and incredible escorts that may make you feel less of a woman.
But all you need to do is change your way of thinking and see beyond yourself-esteem and stop projecting a success image of yourself that you feel you may not be able to reach. Also, stop comparing yourself with others as this may make you lose your confidence.
- Stop setting goals that are hard to achieve
It is very common for most people to set goals that they want to achieve but sometimes the goals we set are unrealistic and they become very difficult to achieve. The moment you set goals and you realize that you are not achieving them, you become frustrated and depressed. As an escort when you set goals, set goals that you know you can be able to achieve. The way you feel about yourself is more important than achieving the goals that we set for ourselves as those goals do not really improve yourself-esteem.
- Erase the perfect picture of you
As an escort, you may find yourself creating that perfect image of you and sometimes you may end up feeling like a failure. This may be a result of the perfect image that you have created for yourself and the moment you realize there is somewhere you have gone wrong, you start blaming yourself. Never try to create a perfect image of yourself and even if you create the image do not try to force yourself into fitting into that image as this will help you eliminate the self-judgment and self-rejection that you may face.
Your profession doesn’t define who you are. When you become an escort all that matters is your personality and being an escort should not change the way you view the world.